When A Child Dies . . .

By Dick Blackford

I was in New Madrid, Missouri in a gospel meeting one spring. While taking an early morning walk, I passed a small cemetery and stopped to read epitaphs on some of the old tombstones. One spoke of hard times for a couple who lost four daughters within six years. The first died in 1845 at three years, four months. The second died in 1848 at two years, eight months. The last was in 1851 at the age of three months. It would be difficult to imagine the degree of grief the parents must have experienced. Their epitaph, which we will notice in a moment, demonstrated the faith of the parents as to where their children would spend eternity.

Their grief would surely have been multiplied if some preacher had told them their children died in sin. As a quick look at most major creed books, disciplines, and manuals will attest, the majority of “Christendom” holds to the view that babies are born in sin. Check the Catholic Catechism, Methodist Discipline, Baptist Manual, Presbyterian Confession, etc.

Concerning the conception of Jacob and Esau, Paul said, “For the children being not yet born, neither having done anything good or evil . . .” (Rom. 9:11). Children are innocent and are in a safe condition until they grow to a point of maturity and become accountable. If one is too young to fully understand about good and evil, he is not yet responsible.

Some say all are guilty of Adam’s sin. If one inherits the sin of Adam it must come through his or her parents. Perhaps foreseeing that some would teach this false doctrine, Ezekiel said “the son shall not bear the iniquity of the father . . .” (18:20). In 2 Corinthians 5:10, Paul said “we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ; that every one may receive the things done in his body . . .” not Adam’s!

Since sin is the transgression of the law (1 John 3:4), how can a transgression  be transmitted? Either one sinned, or he did not. God is a God of fairness and justice. He does not attribute sin to one person that was committed by someone else. What transgression has a baby committed?

We have a choice whom we will serve (Josh. 24:15). Sin involves intent. If babies are born in sin then they had no choice or control in the matter. Then who does that make responsible? God! This doctrine teaches that God caused a corrupted, sinful nature to pass on to innocent babies. Surely this doctrine of “hereditary total depravity” bears much closer examination.

Jesus taught that little children are innocent (Matt.18:1- 3; 19:13-15). He said unless I become like a little child, I can’t go to heaven. How can that be if children are born sinful and corrupt? It can only mean they are not born that way!

I doubt that this couple who lived before the Civil War believed in total depravity, nor that they would provide an occasion near 150 years later to teach the truth on this subject. The epitaph on the tomb of their daughters read,

Sweet were the flowers
But short their bloom.
They blossomed for an early tomb. But faith forbids a rising sigh,
They withered here to bloom on high.

That is exactly what the Bible teaches. Such parents have hope.

The Quartet

By Louis J. Sharp

Memory, precious memories, are one of mankind’s greatest treasures. We love the hymn, “Precious Memories.” It is a meaningful song. Please allow me to share a few memories with you.

Speaking at my sister’s memorial service, I recalled that as children, growing up in our parents’ home, our father formed a singing quartet with the four older children, two boys and two girls. Juanita sang soprano, Virginia the alto, Harold sang bass, and I, the tenor. Our Daddy was the long-time song leader for the church in Little Rock. He led at the original meeting house at 10th and Valmar; then at 12th and Thayer, when the congregation met there. As we moved to 4th and State Street, Daddy was still leading singing. This was the location of the well known Hardeman-Bogard Debate in 1938. Daddy was still song leader when the new building was erected at 6th and Izard streets in the early fifties.

We grew up in a singing family. Daddy taught us a great deal about singing. He had been a musician in his younger years, played cornet and french horn in a school band, and was an excellent singer. He had a natural pitch and frowned on the use of a pitch pipe or tuning fork. Although he didn’t make an issue of it, he simply did not like them himself.

He had us singing at different programs at the old Missouri-Pacific Depot. He worked for the American Railway Express Agency, having started his work with Wells-Fargo. We also sang just for entertainment. Being without radio or TV (still undeveloped), we sang for our own pleasure. We grew up singing. The first of our quartet to leave us was Juanita (1986). Our lead singer departed. The next was Harold, our bass (1987). Every quartet needs a good bass! The most recent to depart is Virginia, a strong alto. And how she could sing her part. As I stated to the audience, only the tenor remains. We know not when our quartet will be reunited, but we believe that day will surely come. My mother and daddy departed many years ago. Now, three of our quartet also have answered death’s call. By reason of time, we too must leave this old world.

Heaven is made more precious, our desire and longing for it greater. One day, with the ransomed of all ages, we’ll meet around the throne of God, singing his praises with the redeemed of all ages! Won’t It Be Wonderful There?

My Preacher

By Glendol McClure

If the brethren go to snoring,
My preacher’s sermons;
They’re just too boring!

If a sick brother needs a visit,
I’ll call my preacher;
It’s his job, isn’t it?

When there are souls we need to seek,
I’ll call my preacher,
Don’t you know I have to work all week!

If the church is not a growing,
Don’t blame the brethren;
My preacher needs to pack and be going.

If there’s a need for a Bible class teacher,
Get with my preacher;
He’s the one we hired to do the teaching!

If some of the brethren go to blows;
Don’t blame me;
My preacher stepped on their toes.

When with the bills we get behind,
Just cut my preacher’s pay,
I’m sure he won’t mind.

And when there’s work or cause for blame,
Go see my preacher;
Don’t bring up my name!

From all of this it’s plain to see,
The brethren hired my preacher,
Just for me!

The Poor Excuse of Hypocrisy

By Steven J. Wallace

The lessons are obvious to the Christian, for we can immediately see that we cannot act like we are a Christian and not really live as one and be pleasing to God.

Hypocrisy is certainly a sin which the Lord condemns without hesitation. Jesus accused the scribes and Pharisees this way, “Even so you also outwardly appear righteous to men, but inside you are full of hypocrisy and lawlessness” (Matt. 23:28). These people who Jesus addressed were acting righteous to men, but their hearts were far from God even as our Lord quoted from Isaiah saying, “. . . Well did Isaiah prophesy of you hypocrites, as it is written: ‘This people honors Me with their lips, but their heart is far from Me’” (Mark 7:6; cf. Isa. 29:13). Jesus also warned his disciples about walking in this same hypocritical path in Luke 12:1, “in the meantime, when an innumerable multitude of people had gathered together, so that they trampled one another, He began to say to His disciples first of all, ‘Beware of the leaven of the Pharisees, which is hypocrisy.’”

The lessons are obvious to the Christian, for we can immediately see that we cannot act like we are a Christian and not really live as one and be pleasing to God. If we make a commitment to God by dying to sin in baptism and rising to live for Christ, yet willingly forsake the assembling of the saints, we are committing hypocrisy. If we say that we love God and do not the things which he has commanded, then we are walking in a hypocritical path. A verbal love or faith that does not work is simply a hypocritical love or faith. John, the apostle encouraged, “My little children, let us not love in word or in tongue, but indeed and in truth” (I John 3:18). If we have become Christians and refuse to bear the cross, then we are com- mitting hypocrisy. Living as a Christian demands some “cross-bearing.” There are some things that we must crucify (i.e., selfishness, lusts, insubordination, pride, etc.) if we are going to consider ourselves Christians. If one is not willing to “bear his cross” (Luke 14:27), then he should not deceive himself or others by thinking that he is a Christian, a disciple of Christ, because he is not; he is a disciple of the devil. We cannot pretend to be someone that we are not, for God knows the hearts of men.

Some, however, use hypocrisy as an excuse to relieve themselves of their personal responsibility to God. You may have heard someone speak something like this, “I don’t need a church to go to. There are too many hypocrites there anyway. In fact, all hypocrites are found in church buildings on Sunday mornings. My spirituality rests on a personal relationship with God.” To one who is ignorant of God’s word, this may seem wise, enticing, and even excusing, but it is simply playing the hypocrite (as we will show) and is dangerously playing with eternal fire! Christians are to have a personal relationship with God; however, much of our “personal relationship” with God rests on our personal responsibilities toward others! Refer to Matthew 25:31-46 for a case in point. Too, Paul penned, “Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all, especially to those who are of the household of faith” (Gal. 6:10). And again one said, “For God is not un- just to forget your work and labor of love which you have shown toward His name, in that you have ministered to the saints, and do minister” (Heb. 6:10; emp. mine). We cannot hide our faith in some closet and be apathetic towards our fellowman’s soul justifying it all by some erroneous idea of a “personal (private) relationship.”

When these people say “personal” relationship, they mean an “inconspicuous” relationship. Most who justify their complacency by condemning other persons’ hypocrisy are acting hypocritically themselves. For example, they go to work to earn their buck even though they work with hypocrites, hypocrites who only work when the boss is around.

Nearly everyone has worked with someone who in- stead of working hard, works hard to hardly work! Again, many of these same people who sneer and deride the “church’s” hypocrisy will gladly entertain themselves listening to musicians who sing about adultery, premarital sex, drinking parties, and things of the like, who then praise and thank God for their Grammy. Why will some work with hypocrites, but not worship with them. Why will some listen to hypocrites entertain, but not study God’s word with them?

Is this not hypocrisy? Would one be so foolish to refuse blood for an immediate surgery for fear of a hypocrite who may have worked in the blood drive? Would one resist a lifeline and perish in a raging sea because there may be a hypocrite on board the ship? How absurd! I am not excusing hypocrisy, I am simply questioning some people’s inconsistency. How Jesus’ words ring true, “And why do you look at the speck in your brother’s eye, but do not perceive the plank in your own eye?” (Luke 6:41).

People who excuse themselves from any responsibility to the Lord’s church because of some person’s sin of hypocrisy will never be saved unless they examine their own hypocrisy of self-righteousness, repent and obey the gospel of Jesus Christ. With such an evasive attitude, these people would have even refused to enter into the first-century church, for there was this ugly problem even then (see Acts 5:1-10). In fact some of the prominent lead- ers in the first century fell subject to this very problem (see Gal. 2:11-14)!

Though we detest hypocrisy, it is a sin that can be cleansed by the blood of Jesus if we are willing to self-examine and judge ourselves before we judge others. Hypocrisy is a sin that must be repented from in order to be forgiven. Christians are not perfect, just forgiven. As for all sins, let us take up the words of the apostle Peter, “Repent therefore of this your wickedness, and pray God if perhaps the thought of your heart may be forgiven you” (Acts 8:22). Don’t stand in the gate of hypocrisy and neither hide behind it. No flesh shall be justified before God by committing it or prejudicially pointing it out in others. Hypocrisy is a poor flimsy excuse that some give to justify their ungodliness.

Let us never be sucked into this deceit. Have you yet?