Soured Souls and Stolen Hearts

By Larry Ray Hafley

Absalom’s innocent dupes were led as lambs to the slaughter. Chaos and corruption, rebellion and division resulted.

Soured souls are embittered, angry, and frustrated. The truth lashes their minds. Their conscience is smitten. Unwilling to lay aside their selfish, stubborn pride, they attempt to disguise and hide their poisoned hearts. With every passing day, they descend deeper and deeper into their vat of vile thinking. Slowly, they wrap and imprison themselves in the cocoon of the bond of iniquity.

Feigned faith and hypocritical humility is the mask they wear to snare the innocent and entangle them in their web of deceit and malice. To some degree, perhaps, this is the story of Absalom. He “stole the hearts of the men of Israel” (2 Sam. 15:6). Ultimately, many were led astray. “Then two hundred men went with Absalom from Jerusalem who were invited and went innocently, and they did not know anything” (2 Sam. 15:11).

Here is how Absalom succeeded:

1. He expressed his sympathy for them (2 Sam. 15:4). Absalom told the people that he felt sorry for them. We all like to be pitied. We like those who show concern for our needs. Absalom played on this.

2. While lamenting their predicament, he told the people that he could not help them (2 Sam. 15:4). In effect, he said, “I really wish I could help you, but my hands are tied. Of course, if things were different, if I were king, if you were following me rather than my father, David, then I could help you. But as things stand now, there is nothing I can do.”

3. He made the people believe he was seeking their best interest (2 Sam. 15:4). This made the people want to take up Absalom’s cause. They had been snared by empty promises. There was no word from God. There was no divine authority for Absalom’s actions. It was all done by playing on emotions with enticing words. Absalom was only interested in Absalom. He was not concerned about the plight of the people. He made them think he was in order to win their favor. This is the way “evil men and seducers” work. They will make you believe they are helping you. In reality, they are merely using you to obtain their goals of self-promotion.

4. He made the people feel important (2 Sam. 15:11). Absalom “invited” them. Imagine the honor of being “invited” by the king’s son! He courted and wooed them with “good words and fair speeches.” “His speech was smoother than butter, but his heart was war; His words were softer than oil, yet they were drawn swords” (Ps. 55:21). “For such men are slaves, not of our Lord Jesus Christ but of their own appetites; and by their smooth and flattering speech they deceive the hearts of the unsuspecting” (Rom. 16:18).

Absalom’s innocent dupes were led as lambs to the slaughter. Chaos and corruption, rebellion and division resulted. They had been deceived by a clever, shrewd politician. Such conniving men still work among churches today. “These are grumblers, finding fault, following after their own lusts; they speak arrogantly, flattering people for the sake of gaining an advantage” (Jude 16). Beware of their snare!

Why Churches Do Not Have Elders

By John N. Evans

Having established that it is God’s plan for a church in its maturity to have elders, why is it that so many congregations do not? Why does there seem to be a growing number of local congregations, some which have been in existence for decades and some with a significant number of older brethren, who are

The New Testament makes it plain that local congregations may exist for some time without elders. For example, on Paul’s first mission- ary journey, he established several churches in southern Galatia. Time passed until he revisited them and elders were selected (Acts 14:21-23). Thus, we have an example of churches existing with divine approval until such time as qualified overseers could be selected.

It is equally plain, however, that a church should never become content to be without elders. In Titus 1:5, for example, Paul wrote, “For this cause left I thee in Crete, that thou shouldest set in order the things that are wanting, and ordain elders in every city, as I had appointed thee.” Obviously, a congregation that labors without qualified elders and deacons is lacking to that extent. Business meetings of the men are an expedient to help the local church function properly, and when they are conducted according to biblical principles I believe they are authorized. They are not, however, “just as good as having elders.” If they were, God would not have created the office of bishop to start with!

God’s plan for the organization of the local church consists of elders, deacons, and members, with each congregation functioning as an autonomous body under Christ’s authority. Philippians 1:1 spells this out in language plain enough for any grade schooler to understand: “Paul and Timotheus, the servants of Jesus Christ, to all the saints in Christ Jesus which are at Philippi, with the bishops and deacons . . .” To put it another way, the eldership is a divine provision for a legitimate need. The church is best equipped to do the work that God has assigned for it to do when it has qualified, serving elders and deacons. When a local church does not have qualified elders, it is wanting to that extent.

Of course, a legitimate desire to have bishops should not compel a church to appoint unqualified men or those who are “close to being qualified.” The Holy Ghost inspired the qualifications of Titus 1:6-11 and 1 Timothy 3:1-7, and in that way makes overseers (Acts 20:28). We cannot ignore divine revelation in an attempt to satisfy personal whim.

Two extremes would be equally sinful because they violate God’s law to an equal degree: (1) Having unqualified men attempt to serve as elders, or (2) Refusing to allow men to serve who are fully qualified.

Having established that it is God’s plan for a church in its maturity to have elders, why is it that so many congregations do not? Why does there seem to be a growing number of local congregations, some which have been in existence for decades and some with a significant number of older brethren, who are lacking bishops? And, why is the selection of elders so often a source of controversy within churches of Christ? Instead of strengthening the church, the selection process sometimes divides it!

First, allow me to say that there are several scriptural reasons why a church may not have overseers. A newly formed congregation, for example, may not have had time to search out the qualified men among them. Or, an established congregation may have suffered the passing of its elders and no other qualified men are members. Or, qualified men may have become unqualified by yielding their lives to Satan. Or, men may be serving as elders and one or more decide to step down for personal reasons. Or, a church, regardless of its size and age, may truly have no qualified men, even though it seems that they should. All of these are biblical reasons for a congregation not to be fully organized.

Sadly, experience tells me that there are also a number of unscriptural reasons for a church to be without bishops, and these are the ones that demand scrutiny.

Some churches do not have elders because the men remain spiritually immature. The elders’ qualifications describe men of wisdom, maturity, and judgment. In some churches men have not grown in these capacities as they ought. Of course, a man can be a Christian without being an elder, and not all are suited by qualification or temperament to the office of bishop. Still, if the men of a local congregation remain babes in Christ through lack of effort, the church may never have elders.

In Hebrews 5:12 the inspired writer chastises the saints for their stunted growth: “For when for the time ye ought to be teachers, ye have need that one teach you again which be the first principles of the oracles of God; and are become such as have need of milk, and not of strong meat.” Of course, this admonition is to all saints, but it certainly applies to our discussion of elders. Bishops must be able to convict the gainsayer (Tit. 1:9). How can they do so if they have only a limited knowledge of Scripture? Elders are to be “apt to teach” (1 Tim. 3:2). How can they demonstrate this ability if they repeatedly refuse teaching opportunities? I understand that not all can or should be teachers (Jas. 3:1), but many refuse even to try. As the Hebrew writer explains, enough time had passed when they should have developed the knowledge and discernment of teachers, but they were still unpracticed in the Word.

I repeat: some congregations lack elders because the men have not set themselves to the task. In the course of each man striving to become spiritually mature (1 Pet. 2:1-2), some will qualify to become bishops. It is not an impossible task. If we agree that it is God’s desire for a church to have elders, then it must be an attainable office.

Some churches do not have elders because there are members who do not want them. I know this sounds extraordinary, but I have met men and women whose attitudes are totally opposed to having bishops. Oh, they probably would not admit this, even to themselves, but their actions speak volumes.

I have known those who had the spirit of Diotrephes in 3 John 9. Diotrephes wanted to be preeminent, or first in importance. Evidently, he was the kind of individual who would have been unwilling to submit to anyone. He was going to be the chief, the head honcho, or no one was. His attitude was one of imposing his will on others, to the point of not even receiving gospel preachers.

Sadly, Diotrephes has his modern counterparts. Elders oversee a congregation within the boundaries of God’s word (1 Pet. 5:2). We willingly submit to that lawful, loving oversight, in accordance with Scripture (Heb. 13:17). A two-way relationship exists. Tragically, Diotrephes and his heirs are unwilling to submit to anyone.

Of course, one with this spirit is not qualified to be an elder, but neither is he going to follow a qualified elder! These are the same individuals who will worry, badger, and bully others in attempting to have their way. They will have their way and their say, or no one will!

Others within local congregations are simply divisive and factious in nature. They have a gunslinger attitude and simply want to stir up trouble. They have no real desire to work together with the brethren toward common goals. The apostle Paul, in Ephesians 4:1-3, says that we should endeavor “. . . to keep the unity of the spirit in the bond of peace.” The argumentative person would rather have a fist fight than unity based on truth. The more the pot boils, and the more tempers flare, the more he seems to enjoy it.

In Matthew 5:8 Jesus says, “Blessed are the pure in heart: for they shall see God.” That statement describes disciples who have a pure desire to serve God and lead others to the gospel. Factious people operate from impure motives. Controversy is what they want. Woe is the man who is being considered for the office of bishop because he is sure to suffer from their severest criticism!

A congregation that tolerates such spiritual bullying will find it difficult to ever appoint overseers.

Some churches do not have elders because of bad experiences. Sometimes a local church will allow negative episodes with elders in the past to dictate their future. As the old saw goes, they throw the baby out with the bath water. Perhaps previous elders acted in a dictatorial, arbitrary fashion. Or maybe an unqualified man tried to serve as elder. For what- ever reason, the members survived an unpleasant experience and, in their desire never to repeat the same mistake, they are reluctant to search out qualified men. After all, if I go to one dentist and experience excruciating pain when he fills a tooth, I may develop a bad attitude towards dentists in general! This is a natural human reaction, but we must guard against it. The best way to overcome this problem is to remember that it is God’s desire for a church to have qualified, serving elders and deacons. If previous elders acted incorrectly or were unqualified, God’s plan was not at fault — the men were! Let us learn from our mistakes and press on.

Some churches do not have elders because members have interpreted the qualifications in an overly strict manner. Or, to put it another way, no man ever measures up to their standards of qualifications. As the old saying goes, we use the qualifications to disqualify a man instead of to qualify him.

I am not urging saints to soften 1 Timothy 3 and Titus 1. We cannot choose to ignore any of the qualifications. Nor would I suggest that we just identify those men who come closest to meeting the qualifications. Either of these approaches would be sinful. I also understand that careful, conservative students of the Bible have disagreed over the years concerning the exact meaning of several of the qualifications.

The point is, we should not imagine that elders will be perfect men, for we shall all fail. As I once heard brother Elmer Moore preach in a lesson, “Do you know where we will find perfect elders? In a congregation of perfect members!”

For example, sometimes members misunderstand the term “blameless,” as it is used in 1 Timothy 3:2. They imagine that it means the man has always shown impeccable judgment and has always made wise decisions. Of course, we know that we have not always done so, but we think that elders must be above the limitations of all men. In one discussion about selecting elders, a member brought up an incident years before in which the man had exercised less than perfect judgment. The incident was relatively trivial, but, in this member’s mind, it forever disqualified the man from being an elder! Who can survive such scrutiny?

Let me tell you about a man I know. Sometimes he talked when he should have listened. Occasionally he was impetuous in his actions. One time I know he acted in a racially prejudiced manner. Why, earlier in life he even denied the Lord three times! Do you think such an individual could ever become an elder? He was, you know — 1 Peter 5:1 says so! Tragically, I fear that some of my brethren would reject Peter out of hand.

Others look at “apt to teach” (1 Tim. 3:2) and imagine that it means an elder must be an accomplished public orator. Certainly an elder must be of a disposition that makes him ready, able, and willing to teach. Also, it would be a bonus if he were a polished public speaker. It is not a requirement, however, that he rival William Jennings Bryan in ability.

Elders will have all the biblical qualifications, but they will not be faultless. Like the rest of us, they will have room to grow. Beware the member who interprets the qualifications in such a way that no man ever measures up.

Sometimes churches do not have elders because the church has become accustomed to being without them. Frankly, I believe this happens fairly often. For whatever reason, a church is without elders for an extended period of time. Sadly, the longer the time, the less likely it seems that elders will be appointed. The men get used to business meetings. All the members become accustomed to the routine and neglect God’s plan of organization in their thinking. Maybe the preacher does not preach on the subject very often. Lip service is paid to the idea of needing bishops, but no real effort is made in that direction. We become too comfortable with an arrangement that should be temporary. Sound familiar? I fear this scenario is repeated in far too many locations!

I have described five unscriptural reasons why churches do not have elders, but I am certain you could add others to the list. May I suggest that, often, several of these hindrances are active at once.

Imagine a church that has been without elders for a number of months or years. The congregation seems to be functioning fairly smoothly, and the brothers and sisters are comfortable with the situation. One or two of the men sort of like having their say anyway. In fact, they insist on it — even if it means bullying the others. Once, two years back, the church tried to select men, but Diotrephes and his brother insisted that no one was qualified. There were several men who could have worked toward that goal, but they allowed themselves to be intimidated and stopped trying. Besides, as some members recalled, they had an elder back in 1970 who strutted around like a little general. The congregation languishes, consoling themselves that they are doing the best that they can under difficult circumstances.

Friends, I fear that there is a growing trend for more churches of Christ to be without elders for longer periods of time. I pray that conscientious brethren will remember God’s plan for the organization of the local congregation and labor to be faithful to that pattern. I ask God that faithful men will rise to the task and that churches will recognize their courage. May we have such strength and conviction!

Used to Be’s

By David A. Beck

Mom thought I was cute, precious, and her little boy.
“Everything I did,” she said, “brought the greatest joy.”
What you were won’t last forever is clear to see;
But my heart was molded by what she thought of me.

I soon became a happy, well-adjusted teen;
 Never a care in the world, or so it then seemed.
Idealistic, uninhibited and free;
Oh, for the simple state of what I “used to be.”

That’s when I met Marti and we became best friends.
We talked of life and love and a world without end;
Of where we would live, how many children there’d be.
I never dreamed there’d be the day of “used to be’s.”

As man and wife striving to please one another;
And be to our kids the best father and mother.
We worked so hard at trying to accomplish these,
It’s now hard to imagine them as “used to be’s.”

It’s hard as you look back after losing your wife
To not see only an empty “used to be” life.
But as a slave to the past you will never see
What you can still do and what you can still be.

The Lord said, “With others your life still can be shared.
“There are more children to help and know that you care.
“By example teach others to look up and see.
“Life’s more than yesterdays and broken ‘used to be’s.”

He said, “I know that you’ve stumbled and lost your pace.
“But, like Paul,  sufficient for you will be my grace.
“Three times He begged me to heal the thorn in his flesh.
“But through suffering sometimes we can do our best.”

“Though you may feel like it, you’re not really alone.
“I am still by your side though your Marti’s gone home.

The Four Gospels: New Testament or Old Testament?

By Paul K. Williams

I just received a letter from a Christian who asked about the books of Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John. It said, “We are now receiving teaching that gives us the understanding that these books belong to the Old Testament. The church where we worship is confused about this issue. Please forward me some information to help us better understand the gospels.”

It is easy to be confused about these books because they are different from any others in the Bible. The books of Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John give the events and teaching of Jesus while he was on earth. When you study them, you should remember these things:

1. They were written during the time of the new testament. The law of Moses was God’s “first testament,” or the “old testament” (Heb. 8:6-13). It ended for all people for all time when Jesus died on the cross (Col. 2:14-17). The new covenant (testament) began after Jesus went back into heaven. He then sent the Holy Spirit on the apostles and the new testament church began (Acts 2). The four gospels were written after the church began for the benefit of people living in the new testament age.

2. The four gospels were written:

  • To produce faith that Jesus is the Son of God (John 20:30-31).
  • To give an accurate account of the teaching and actions of Jesus (Luke 1:1-4).
  • To deepen the understanding of Christians concerning their faith. The gospels are not simply biographies. They were written to help us truly understand the teachings of Jesus.
  • To answer Jewish objections to Jesus as the Messiah.
  • To show true religion in contrast to the religion of the Jewish leaders.
  • To combat false teachings concerning the nature of Jesus. (This is especially true of the book of John.)
  • To announce and explain teachings of Jesus that are different from the teachings of Moses.
  • To give a true understanding of the nature of the kingdom of God, which is the church.

3. Jesus lived his life on earth while the law of Moses was still the law for the Jews. He was “born under the Law” (Gal. 4:4). He kept the Sabbath, went to Jerusalem for the Jewish feasts, and told the rich young ruler to keep the commandments (Luke 18:20). He never disobeyed the law of Moses. All of the events which took place before the cross of Christ took place during the time when the old testament was in effect for the Jews.

4. Jesus was preparing people for the kingdom. He said that the kingdom was “at hand.” He gave many parables which tell the value and nature of the kingdom. When he was on trial he explained to Pilate, the governor, that “My kingdom is not of this world” (John 18:36).

5. He announced new testament legislation.

  • He told Nicodemus that one must be “born of water and the Spirit” (John 3:5) in order to enter the king- dom of God. This is new testament legislation even though he was speaking before the new testament came into effect.
  • He told the Samaritan woman, “An hour is coming when neither in this mountain, nor in Jerusalem, shall you worship the father” (John 4:21). This is the only verse which says that the place where we worship God is not bound. We apply it today when we understand that we do not have to worship at Jerusalem — or in an upper room! God is pleased with our worship when we worship in spirit and in truth (John 4:24).
  • He gave specific instructions as to what we must do when our brother sins (Matt. 18:15-17), speaking of telling it to the “church” even before there was a church. This is the only place in the New Testament where we are specifically told how to deal with this problem. It is new testament legislation.
  • He said, “And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery” (Matt. 19:9). This was different from what Moses said (Deut. 24:1-4). When the dis- ciples asked Jesus about this he replied, “Because of the hardness of your heart, Moses permitted you to divorce your wives . . . And I say to you . . .” (Matt. 19:8-9). What Jesus said about divorce is different from what Moses said! What he said is for all people now, in the new testament age.
  • Mark says in chapter 7, verse 19, “(Thus He declared all foods clean.)” All foods were not clean until Jesus died on the cross (Col. 2:14-17), but Jesus announced that they were clean before he died. This is all quite natural. Jesus was preparing his disciples for the kingdom which was just a few years or months away when he was speaking. His teaching naturally focused on that kingdom.

6. After he was raised from the dead, Jesus gave the great commission. In Matthew 28:18-20; Mark 16:15-16; and Luke 24:46-47 Jesus gave his last-minute instructions to the apostles. The New Testament was not yet in effect, but it would be in a few days. In these verses are commands telling them what to do after the Holy Spirit came to them, and in them are found the terms of salvation. “He who has believed and has been baptized shall be saved.” “Repentance and remission of sins should be preached.” “Baptizing them in the name of the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit.” “Teaching them to observe all things which I have commanded you.”

New Testament Books

It is correct, therefore, to say that the books of Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John are new testament books. They were written for people who live under Christ’s new testament. But when we study them, we must always remember that the events recorded took place in the last years of the old testament.